04.06.20 | Timestamp @55:21 | 2 Hours of Advice For Everyone in Hard Times
Bradley’s Question or Topic
Bradley is from Cedar Falls, Iowa. He sometimes struggles with setting high goals for himself and not achieving them most of the time. So Bradley wants to fix the problem.
Gary’s Story and Advices
Bradley is having difficulty in meeting his goals because he is putting a time limit on them. To Gary, Bradley has this fascination and need to create timeframes. And because of that, it upsets him whether or not he was able to achieve his goals on time. Bradley is judging himself for no reason.
Gary suggests that Bradley should make his timeframe forever. In that way, he’ll be able to slow down and improve his behavior. It will make him a more honorable man, too because he’s not going to try to quickly get to something.
Gary Vaynerchuk’s Quotes
“There’s nothing worse than putting a time limit on a goal.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“There’s no more guaranteed way to be sad and anxious and get f*cked up than to put a time limit on a goal.”
~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“I’m best at not f*cking hearing a single thing and not judging myself. And two, I have no interest in flexing on anybody about anything because I don’t give a f*ck if you think I’m great or I suck.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“Being happy is gonna be way cooler than being a millionaire at 31.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“Putting a timeframe on your goals is making you unhappy.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“Make the time frame forever, and you’ll slow down, you’ll do much better behavior. It will make you a more honorable man too because you’re not going to f*cking try to quickly get to something. And when you want to get to something quickly, your behavior gets bad.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“When somebody wants something fast, they start going into darker places.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“Even going meta, Tea with Gary Vee is resonating with people because I have more time.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk