04.17.20 | Timestamp @21:20 | 7 Ways to Come Out of Self-Isolation a Better Person
Paige’s Question or Topic
Paige has been posting content on social media but is concerned about the negative feedback that she’s been receiving. Now, her question is on how to balance between losses and wins, posting them on social media.
Gary’s Story and Advices
Since Paige is doing good for the community, she has to remember that the negative comments have nothing to do with her. And that she is over-analyzing herself. What is happening in the people that are saying negative is either they lost their jobs or their loved ones. Right now, because it’s easy to hide behind a keyboard, people are projecting their anger.
Gary Vaynerchuk’s Quotes
“When people are hurting, they project.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“You can’t feel great when you get positive validation.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“When somebody says you’re pretty or you’re smart, or that’s a great idea, you can’t get high. You’ve got to stay quiet in the middle. Because when somebody comes and says you’re a piece of sh*t, you’ve already practiced for that moment.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk
“When you overvalue complements, people that tear you down have leverage.” ~ Gary Vaynerchuk